Being a mom is a very tough job.. That too a new mom and a first mom is toughest.. Reading a blog of one of my friends reminded me this incident which happened to me.
Few days after my delivery I go to my ILs place.. There alot of people come to visit me and my princess.. That is so sweet of them. But why do these people show the false concern which I dont need.
My mom who is looking after my kiddo from the day she was born day and night with out sleep, was taking my little baby on her lap. A lady who I have never seen or never known who she is, is just a visitor, tells my mom not to take my baby in the lap. She claims 'Meeru ala ethukuni alavatu cheste MA AMMAI(Me) (lol) malli kasta padali' She tells this to my mom claiming I am this lady's child.. This is one of the most disgusting things I have ever faced. I was so pissed of. The irony is nobody who knows her or who invited her stopped. Rather they are supporting her. Me being a independent and a lady with self respect cannot just let some lady to claim I am her so called child that too to my mom. So I gently had to tell her that its my mom who is going to look after the baby after 2 months when my maternity leave was gonna end.
This is one of the things that happened to me, there are many more things people want to know about and people want to interfere. Just letting this phase to pass by being firm, no matter if it hurts someone or not.
I just want to tell to all such people.. Please I do not want your so called false concern on me..
Few days after my delivery I go to my ILs place.. There alot of people come to visit me and my princess.. That is so sweet of them. But why do these people show the false concern which I dont need.
My mom who is looking after my kiddo from the day she was born day and night with out sleep, was taking my little baby on her lap. A lady who I have never seen or never known who she is, is just a visitor, tells my mom not to take my baby in the lap. She claims 'Meeru ala ethukuni alavatu cheste MA AMMAI(Me) (lol) malli kasta padali' She tells this to my mom claiming I am this lady's child.. This is one of the most disgusting things I have ever faced. I was so pissed of. The irony is nobody who knows her or who invited her stopped. Rather they are supporting her. Me being a independent and a lady with self respect cannot just let some lady to claim I am her so called child that too to my mom. So I gently had to tell her that its my mom who is going to look after the baby after 2 months when my maternity leave was gonna end.
This is one of the things that happened to me, there are many more things people want to know about and people want to interfere. Just letting this phase to pass by being firm, no matter if it hurts someone or not.
I just want to tell to all such people.. Please I do not want your so called false concern on me..
